Tracy Quan has come up with a useful list of
ten things you should never say to a call girl.
I have been asked all of the questions, and here is my take on some of them.
10. When someone asks me what my real name is, like Tracy Quan- I think stalker, and they are nosy.
9. When I am asked how much I earn I think they are rude, a pimp, or an inspector.
8. Is my best friend a call girl- I think nosy.
7. I've never paid for sex- sometimes I believe this, and am aware that the person is feeling guilty. In other cases I think he wants me to think he is a good guy.
6. Do you hate men- I think they are trying to stereotype me.
5. Does your family know everything about you- again I think they are crossing the line.
4. Your'e very articulate-trying to stereotype, an expectation that I should be some gibbering airhead.
3. You don't look like a call girl- I am thinking because my dress sense doesn't scream hooker.
Clearly, there are questions that I am asked by some
regular clients, that I have a different response to as a different relationship has developed.
Just finished reading this article, about
guys not getting hooked on hookers.
It reminded me of an old escort friend of mine . She met a client who asked her to leave the industry, and he paid her a huge chunk of cash every month. Set her up in a plush pad in a very expensive part of town, and paid all her other expenses. All that he asked, was that she was available when he was in town, which was only a few times a year.
Well, this wasn't enough for my escort girlfriend. She chose to carry on working, and he discovered her ad in a mag. He challenged her, but he chose to continue to support her, and did so, until she left the industry.Clearly, he was not short of cash, but he could have chosen to spend it elsewhere.
The guys in the article seem to have got a raw deal, and don't sound like happy bunnies.
I read this article on
why men use prostitutes yesterday. I wonder what is new about any of the findings.
I can only speak about my own experience of clients, and what I have picked up from escort friends. Most of my clients don't tell me that they feel guilty,awful, dirty after a booking. There are a few who have talked about their guilt at length. Some will argue that I am not representative of most of the women in the industry.
What I found interesting in the article, is the man who said he would feel cheated, if he knew an escort was enjoying herself. The flip side of the
men who say that escorts are too professional.
Or the men who want you to come.
The findings show that most of these men claim that they would stop visiting prostitutes if the new law was enforced, but believe there would be more rapes.