In a blog post entitled "The relentless search for 'tell me what to do'" guru Seth Godin writes: If you've ever hired or managed or taught, you know the feeling. People are just begging to be told what to do. There are a lot of reasons for this, but I ...



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Breaking the Mold of Waiting to Be Told


In a blog post entitled "The relentless search for 'tell me what to do'" guru Seth Godin writes:
If you've ever hired or managed or taught, you know the feeling.

People are just begging to be told what to do. There are a lot of reasons for this, but I think the biggest one is: "If you tell me what to do, the responsibility for the outcome is yours, not mine. I'm safe."

When asked, resist.
Godin is correct that resisting the temptation to tell people what to do is required. But it also is important to consider why people feel the need to seek such direction. Equally if not more culpable are the managers or bosses whose mindset and actions foster a Wait to be Told culture.
  • It's hard to assume responsibility for decisions you're not allowed to make.
  • Always having to get someone's approval to act inhibits you exercising initiative.
  • You lose your desire to innovate if your new ideas are always rejected at the top.
  • It is tough to know what to do if leaders fail to articulate and reinforce understanding of mission, vision, and strategy.
Too many managers still operate from a command and control paradigm, one that fosters the very "tell me what to do mindset" Godin bemoans.

No doubt some prospective volunteers or employees come into an organization wanting to be told what to do. Perhaps their past experience with ill-conceived management is the real source of that expectation.

Until our organizational cultures advance the real sources of individual motivation as addressed in Dan Pink's new book Drive—autonomy, mastery, and purpose—we should expect little to change.

If you want more people exercising initiative, here a few simple steps to take.
  • Ensure proper orientation of new employees and volunteers, including a evaluation question at the end: What additional information/support do you need in order to feel like you can effectively do your work?
  • Clearly articulate upfront permissions to act—across the org and in specific roles—and the expectation that people do so.
  • Examine all organizational processes and policies to see where unhelpful permission-seeking may be required. Revise as appropriate.
  • Regularly ask individuals: What is getting in the way of you taking more initiative in your work.
  • When in your eyes individuals seek your approval or permission unnecessarily talk with them about what cased the to do so and coach them accordingly.
Bonus
Here are four vignettes reflecting staff members at different stages in their work with an organization. They can be used as a discussion prompt in a meeting or workshop focusing on initiative. 


           


    A Few Insights on Facilitation from a Twitter Q&A

    Every so often I invite people on Twitter to send me questions they have about facilitation. I, in turn, Tweet out my replies.  Below are four questions and my answers from my most recent Twitter outing on Friday, August 18. Unlike a typical text post, this one contains all the relevant information in slide images.











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    Time to Consider a Capital (Human) Campaign


    Almost every major nonprofit institution will embark on at least one capital campaign during its lifetime, soliciting significant financial contributions for new buildings, programs, or their endowment.

    It's time for any organization that solicits volunteers' time and talent to do the same.  Except instead of raising money,ask for pledges and commitments of time, talent, and leadership.

    First, create a compelling vision of the meaningful and bold accomplishments that will be achieved if the goal for volunteer contributions is met.  Make the case compelling, crafting a vivid story bringing to life what this massive influx of time and talent will make possible.  Think like the renowned Chicago architect Daniel Burnham who famously said:
    "Make no little plans. They have no magic to stir men's blood and probably themselves will not be realized. Make big plans; aim high in hope and work, remembering that a noble, logical diagram once recorded will never die, but long after we are gone will be a living thing, asserting itself with ever-growing insistency. Remember that our sons and grandsons are going to do things that would stagger us. Let your watchword be order and your beacon beauty. Think big."
    Second, just as with a major fund-raising campaign, have a quiet phase in which you solicit major contributions and matching challenge grants from lead donors and prominent individuals to model the way for the masses.

    Third, recruit individuals to serve as team captains, each pledging to reach out those in their circles of influence and to obtain a certain level of commitments and contributions.

    Finally, go public with the campaign, sharing your goal for the results you want to achieve and inviting individuals to pledge their commitment to help make the vision a reality.

    Too many organizations fail to fully imagine what might be possible from a broader and deeper contribution of time and talent from those who care about their purpose or cause.  And if we never make the ask, individuals can never make the gift of their ideas, insights, and labor to making major achievements possible.

    The community is always resource-full.  We just need to be more resourceful in engaging it.
           


    A Dozen Ideas for Better Conferences



    Revisiting and refreshing some conference design fundamentals can often enhance the value the experience provides to participants. Based on doing exactly that with several organizations this year, here are a dozen (in no particular order) opportunities calling for your attention. In exploring these areas, remain vigilant about your own possible implicit bias ... designing elements that you would like, but your participants might value less.

    1. Right after registration check-in is an underutilized opportunity.
    Planners spend a lot of time ensuring an efficient registration experience, but often spend no time designing what comes next.  I've checked in and now have a bag full of stuff ... now what? Consider creating a transition space where people can sit, get organized, and get connected.  Components could include light refreshments, welcome ambassadors, a genius bar, a resource area, award winners on display, and more.

    2.  General sessions beg to be followed by learning labs.
    Many conferences fail to realize an appropriate learning return for their big bucks investments in general session speaker fees and stagecraft. Even the most compelling keynote speech has limited shelf life if application is not examined with like-minded peers. College courses often have lectures followed by intimate learning labs and conference general sessions can do the same. Labs could be organized by job functions, organization size or budget, specific questions or issues, and more. Better yet, also build content application moments into the general session design to make that experience more active and useful.

    3.  Subject Matter Experts (SMEs) still receive too little support.
    SMEs comprise a large percentage of the presenters at many conferences and still need much more support to move from delivering information to facilitating learning. A basic support menu should include an online resource center, webinars, before and after session design examples, peer coaching, and special attention related to diversity and inclusion commitments.

    4.  Create conference core values to infuse identity and intention into your choices.
    If I was to watch your conference in action or examine any of its artifacts (marketing, program guides, apps, et al) would I immediately sense how it is different than a competing organization trying to attract the same audience? Applying clearly articulated core values can increase the odds your conference experience has a distinct identity, one amplified and extended in participants' word-of-mouth marketing. I'll address this topic in-depth in my next post in this series.

    5.  Attend to the flow as you sequence conference elements.
    A great conference experience is subtly orchestrated by carefully sequencing individual conference elements (and individual segments within them) for their effect on learning, connections and community, energy and attention, cognitive overload, and much more. In your design, be sure to consider how moving any individual element affects the overall flow as well as these individual factors.

    6.  Some major conference welcoming events are anything but, particularly for introverts. 
    A good welcoming event is like curb appeal for a house for sale ... it draws you in and makes you want to see more or it sends you running away.  Every conference has a diverse array of participants in terms of: demographics; interests and needs; connection to your industry or profession, your organization, the conference community; dietary restrictions and preferences, and much more. Create some mock participant profiles that reflect these differences and then consider your welcoming event design through the eyes of these individuals. Dig deep into your design to create a more inclusive welcome. And a big missed opportunity? Making me feel welcome if I happen to miss the big welcoming event.

    7.  Design for the ramp-up (pre-event) and the reflect and reengage (post-event) with as much intention and attention as you give the event itself.
    Gather folks involved in your conference design and ask each one to write down the percentage of design time and resources allocated to (1) before the event, (2) the event itself, and (3) after the event. After everyone shares, discuss the distributions and what participant value might be created if the time and resources were allocated differently. Too often, what happens before and after receive too little attention and remain too focused on logistics. Both should be about enhancing the learning and connectedness/sense of community your participants acquire.

    8.  Enable sharing to spread the conference value far and wide.
    What if every attendee is thought of as a learning ambassador, someone who will need to go back and teach others all that was learned from your conference? How might you support them in doing so? Creating shareable snack-size content excerpts (pictures with headlines and takeaways, prepared Tweets and social media status update options with built-in content takeaways, and video session highlights or executive summaries are just a few of the possibilities.

    9.  Set yourself up to succeed. Place little bets.
    Test your boldest or riskiest ideas where you can learn what works without fear; i.e., a limited attendance or invite only session, a track of conference experiments, an optional experience. Every conference design benefits from experimenting with new ways to support participants' intentions, as well as refreshing the value of longstanding program elements before they become tired and less desirable.

    10.  Build learning into your marketing and communications.
    Include links to additional resources (ones you offer, as well as a curated and annotated list of external sources that you create) in your online registration materials and session descriptions, as well as registration confirmations and other communications. Do not limit learning to the conference or any sessions themselves.

    11.  Connect content to application through the learning experience.
    Content without context, reflection, exploration, and application is merely noise that may raise awareness at best. That is not enough. We must help participants understand the implications (so what?) and applications (now what?) of any content covered. Increase the ratio of signal-to-noise in your content and session design and help every presenter do the same by providing at minimum, a list of easy-to-apply hands-on learning formats.

    12.  White space is your friend.
    Every conference schedule needs breathing room and white space by design. It is why musicians have silence between the notes and wine tastings include palate cleansers between samples. A good conference design does the same.

    This is the fourth post in a summer series on the craft of conference and program design.

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    The Reveal: Helping Make Perspectives and Positions Known


    Trainers and facilitators call it a lot of things: making learning visible, getting all the cards on the table, surfacing assumptions and insights, increasing transparency, making the private more public.  Whatever the label, "it" always refers to one thing: making more individual perspectives and positions known so that a group of people can discuss them.

    When collaborating with folks on workshop and conference designs this year, I've realized that not everyone is comfortable with how to do this or is familiar with the array of options available to do so.  Let me share a few of the core issues I consider in my designs and some specific tools and techniques I have found easy to use.

    The Johari Window is one framework that influences how I think about this work as I will be asking people to make public to others information that currently is private and known only to them.  A workshop or conference attendee's comfort to do so is influenced by many factors including the size and composition of the group, the perceived intrusiveness or vulnerability associated with answering the questions, the level of familiarity and trust that exists among everyone participating, and the potential risks or rewards associated with the sharing. The more challenging the ask, the more support that may be required to facilitate the answer.

    One of the most important design decisions then is whether the public sharing of the information will be done anonymously or with attribution.

    Anonymous sharing can be facilitated by:

    • Real-time cellphone or tablet polling using Poll Everywhere or a comparable platform.
    • A summary of participant responses to a pre-event survey coupled with sharing a Word Cloud of the aggregate response as a compelling visual.
    • Individuals noting responses on index cards to questions posed and then placing them in topical envelopes followed by small groups each taking an envelope, discussing their card content, and creating a summary for sharing.

      Semi-anonymous sharing can be facilitated by:

      • Flag Polling with participants raising a red (disagree strongly), yellow (neutral), or green (agree strongly) paper flag in response to questions posed. 
      • Rapid Response Cards. Individuals write an index card response to a question posed. Cards are then quickly passed and read for a brief time period.  To increase anonymity, cards could be shuffled and distributed prior to the read and pass.
      • Groupies involves participants in a small group individually noting their thoughts on a topic. The table's cards are placed in an envelope and swapped with another table. The new cards are then read and discussed with a summary created or reactions/feedback noted before cards are returned to the original table.
      • Think-Pair-Share invites individuals to first note their thoughts followed by more intimate sharing with one person. The sharing can be repeated with new partners.
      • Sit in a Section uses the room set to facilitate like-minded people connecting as participants sit in a section earmarked for individuals holding a participant opinion/position. You can use tables with different color cloths to achieve this goal or physically label different rows of seats.

      Public sharing can be facilitated by:

      • Human Graphs with individuals forming a straight line (zero) and moving left or right based on their level of agreement or disagreement with a statement read.
      • Four Corners in which each corner of the room is labeled with a multiple choice option or a level of agreement and people move to the appropriate space when a question or statement is read.
      • Town Halls where individuals self-select to take a microphone and offer responses or thoughts.
      • Personal Billboards in which individuals note responses on a flipchart to a variety of questions posed, sign their chart, and post it.  All participants than do a Gallery Walk viewing others' postings before open facilitated discussion.
       

        For any of these "reveal" techniques, learning designers also want to consider the introverted or extroverted tendencies of participants and enhance the chosen formats to be as inclusive as possible of either tendency.

        Additional key inclusion considerations are the sightedness, auditory capabilities, and mobility of participants. You do not want to select a format that will automatically exclude anyone from fully engaging.

        Further, avoid using exclusionary language when introducing the format. Example: In Four Corners, a person in a wheelchair can move to whichever corner represents her opinion, but she cannot go stand in the corner to make her selection.

        A well-designed session or conference can include a variety of these techniques or approaches, selecting them based on the nature of the content you want to surface, the time available for doing so, and the energy and engagement the technique should support based on where it falls in the program/event.

        While not exhaustive by any means, I hope this overview stimulates your thinking about how to better facilitate participants sharing individual information for group-level discussion and decision-making.

        How else have you approached this important work?

        This is the third post in a summer series on the craft of conference and program design.

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