Have you ever had one of those days where the sadness just kind of sits with you… and you can’t quite shake it? Not because anything big happened. Not because something went wrong. It’s just… there. I’ve had days like that more times than I ...
Have you ever had one of those days where the sadness just kind of sits with you… and you can’t quite shake it?
Not because anything big happened. Not because something went wrong. It’s just… there.
I’ve had days like that more times than I can count. The kind where everything feels a little heavier, even the simple things.
I’ve been busier than usual the last few weeks, leaving me with little time for social media…but I am noticing a trend.
Each time that I am able to check in with what everyone has going on, it leaves me exhausted and with an overall feeling of sadness after just a little bit of scrolling through.
There are so many tragic and scary things that are happening everyday, some much more horrific than others.
Social media turns everyone into an expert and the end result is strained and broken relationships.
It can begin to feel like we are living in hopeless times if you don’t do something to change your focus.
My heart is heavy for all those that are personally involved in the tragedies that have taken place the last few weeks.
When the sadness feels heavy, try this:
Sometimes the best thing we can do is take one small step… not fix everything, just shift things a little.
Here are a few simple things that have helped me:
Step outside for a few minutes – Even if it’s just your porch or backyard. Fresh air can do more than we think.
Reach out to someone you trust – A quick text. A “hey, can we talk?” You don’t have to carry everything by yourself.
Look for one small good thing – It might be your coffee, a quiet moment, or even just getting through the day. It doesn’t have to be big to matter.
You don’t have to do all of these. Just pick one.
Sometimes one small step is all it takes to remind your heart that you’re not stuck.
Ways to break free from the sadness
When the world is swirling around you and you feel like there is no hope, try these tips for breaking free from the sadness.
Pray
Because honestly it is the first thing I always do in any situation, especially those that seem hopeless.
You know King David, a man after God’s own heart, spent many verses in the Psalms being pretty real and honest with his depression.
And God always saw him through it, and he wants to do the same for us too!
Reach out
Find someone you trust and share honestly how you are feeling.
Just talking about how you are feeling and bringing the darkness into the light can release a lot of what tries to hold you in your pit.
Fear and shame over what others will think if they knew how you felt or thought can be powerful when left unchecked.
Self Care
Make sure you are taking care of yourself with enough sleep, exercise, healthy food, and proper hygiene.
Getting ready each day from head to toe and spending some time outside can be very beneficial to your overall well being.
Limit Stress
Limit the activities that cause undue stress.
Obviously there are things you cannot limit, but all of the extras need to go when you are trying to come out of the fog.
Learning to say no is a HUGE tool that we all need to practice using more!
Relax
Find activities that you love to do and help you relax.
Maybe try taking a walk, reading a book, take a hot bath, listen to music, or watching a movie.
Mine happens to be writing and gardening!
Gratitude
Remind yourself of all you have to be grateful for.
It’s easy to get caught up in despair when you dwell on what’s wrong instead of what is right.
It might be difficult at first to change your perspective, but I promise you that once you start to look at the things that you have going for you, it will become easier to have a grateful heart for all that you have.
When you stop trying to control your circumstances you have no other option but to allow hope to grow within you.
Hope is the bridge that connects what is with what will be.
It is not an easy thing to do, but trust that things will turn out the way they should even if it is not the way you think they should.
I hope you will find some of these tips helpful, and I would love to hear your comments and which techniques you use to get through the cloud of sadness.
When you have tried to do all you can on your own, it might be time to reach out for professional help.
Use the diagram below to get a good idea where you are with your emotions. Work to stay on the positive side of things whenever possible.
If today feels a little heavy, you’re not alone in that.
And you don’t have to wait for everything to feel “better” to find a small moment of peace. Sometimes it starts with something simple… a deep breath, a quiet moment, or even just reminding yourself that this feeling won’t last forever.
You’re going to be okay.
And if you need a place to start, just take one small step today. That’s enough.
I didn’t grow up thinking “old fashioned skills” were anything special… they were just life.
But somewhere along the way, we traded a lot of them for convenience, and now we’re paying for it in ways we didn’t expect.
Below you’ll find several Old Fashioned Skills for Sustainable Living your great grandma had that you should have too!
Ever think about what skills used to be a part of everyday life that could make your life easier or helping to provide for your family now?
Odds are if your great grandmother were here to talk to you she would tell you about these 4 essential skills that helped her get through everyday life, save money, and never have to worry about how she would provide for her family.
How These Skills Save You Money
Cooking = lower grocery bill
Sewing = extend clothing life
Gardening = reduce food costs
DIY = avoid paying for services
Sewing
Things used to be very different and people had to make do with what they had or even make their own stuff.
Your great grandmother came from a generation where sewing your kid’s new clothes was not only normal but encouraged.
Those beautiful vintage sewing patterns and stacks of fabric didn’t just sit in your great grandmother’s crafting room.
They were put to use daily.
Even if you are not interested in pulling out asewing machine and making a dress for your child you can still benefit from learning how to use a needle and thread to repair things you already own.
Gardening
More and more people are learning the importance of this life skill.
When you can grow your own food you help make your family more sustainable, provide your family with the best quality food possible, and even do your part for the environment.
Start your own vegetable garden in the backyard or just start with some potted plants on a sunny patio depending on where you live to learn this vital skill and start providing great food for your family.
Canning and Preserving
While the grocery store is a great thing knowing how to can and preserve food from your garden or a great deal you find at the local farmers market is a great way to lower your expenses and improve the quality of food you are feeding your family.
Learning how to can and freeze vegetables is a great way to preserve everything at its peak of freshness.
Start simple and fill your freezer with fresh produce from your garden or sales at your local farmers’ market.
Once you are ready, find some canning supplies and dive into making simple things that can be done with water bath canning like tomato sauce and homemade jellies.
This is a great way to get started with home canning and preservation.
Odds are your grandmother took it up a notch and learned how to use a pressure canner.
This allows you to can more fruits, vegetables, and even soups and broths to fill your pantry with healthy food made with love for the long cold winter ahead.
Read More: Food Preservation Guide – How To Decide What To Can, What To Freeze And What To Dehydrate
Bread making
When it comes to dying skills that have made a recent comeback bread making is high on the list.
Your great grandmother didn’t run to the store for a loaf of bread every week.
Last year many families learned that knowing how to make your own bread can be a really handy skill to have and when you are willing to learn making bread from scratch can be an easy task.
Add in a quality stand mixer to do the needing and it may just become your favorite way to eat bread.
How to Start Learning These Skills (Without Overwhelm)
Pick ONE skill
Start with YouTube or a simple project
Use what you already have
Don’t aim for perfect
In today’s fast paced world, where technology and modern conveniences dominate our daily lives, it’s easy to overlook the wisdom of old fashioned skills for sustainable living.
However, as we face the challenges of economic changes these traditional skills are more relevant than ever.
Embracing these old fashioned skills can help us live more sustainably.
By incorporating these practices into our modern lives, we can create a more resilient and regenerative way of living that honors our past and supports our present.
So, let’s take a step back, slow down, and rediscover the beauty and practicality of these old fashioned skills.
Let’s learn from the wisdom of our grandma’s and apply it to our modern lives, for a more sustainable, fulfilling, and harmonious way of living on this beautiful planet we call home.
AT&T is showing its support for teachers today and every day with the best price on unlimited plans. Discover all the Teacher Appreciation discounts here.
Barnes & Noble
The B&N Educators program offered teachers 20% off the publisher’s list price on all purchases for the classroom and 10% off of cafe purchases, but the program is coming to an end April 12, 2023.
Teachers and members of the education community can save up to 40% reservations booked between May 8-14 with the code TEACHER. The offer is valid for stays through 9/21/23. Great Wolf Lodge will also donate $10 from every reservation booked as part of Teacher Appreciation Week (up to $100,000) to Donors Choose to help provide classroom supplies to teachers across the country.
All teachers get 15% off in-store and online when they register on their website.
Kendra Scott
The jewelry brand is offering 15% off all items for teachers during Teacher Appreciation Week, In-store only.
Lenovo
Teachers can save 5% sitewide, including laptops, tablets and desktop computers.
Lovesac
Healthcare Workers, First Responders, Military Personnel, and Teachers can get 5% off all purchases.
McAlister’s Deli
Teachers who stop by McAlister’s Deli May 3-May 10 and show their valid ID will receive a free 32 oz. tea (Limit one per person and excluding in app or online orders).
Michaels
Get 15% off your entire purchase, including sale items, when you use your Michaels Rewards account to check out. Offer is available in-store and online and must show a valid educator ID or complete the educator verification process through the rewards program.
Samsung
Through Samsung’sEducation Offers Program, teachers and educators can save up to 30% off on laptops, tablets, smartphones and more when shopping on Samsung.com.
Schlotzsky’s
If you’re looking to give a gift to a special teacher in your life, from May 5 through May 8, if you spend $25 in Schlotzsky’s gift cards, you’ll receive $10 eRewards.
Staples
Anyone who joins the Classroom Rewards program can earn 5% back to the school or teacher of their choice all year long, and teachers can sign up to redeem those rewards.
TGI Fridays
In honor of Teacher Appreciation Day on 5/2, teachers can receive a free meal from 5pm until close at participating TGI Fridays restaurants. Simply present a valid school ID to receive your choice between four meals: either a cheeseburger with seasoned fries; crispy chicken fingers with seasoned fries and coleslaw; a 6 oz. center-cut sirloin with mashed potatoes and garlic-butter broccoli or a Caesar salad with grilled chicken.
With the numerous freebies and discounts being offered during this week, it’s easier than ever for teachers to feel appreciation in tangible ways.
Whether it’s a free coffee or a discounted museum admission, every little bit counts.
So let’s make the most of this special week and take the time to thank the teachers in our lives for all that they do.
If you’re looking for simple, delicious, and budget friendly Mother’s Day brunch ideas, you’re in the right place.
Whether you’re planning a cozy brunch at home or putting together something a little more special, these recipes are perfect for celebrating Mom without the stress (or the big price tag).
From sweet treats to savory favorites and fun drinks, this list has a little bit of everything to help you create a brunch Mom will truly love.
Sweet Brunch Favorites
If Mom has a sweet tooth, these recipes are the perfect place to start.
This Strawberry Yogurt Fruit Dip is perfect for dipping fresh fruit and adding something a little extra to the table.
Make It Special (Without Spending a Ton)
You don’t have to go over the top to make Mother’s Day feel special. A simple table setup, a handwritten note, and a homemade brunch can mean more than anything fancy.
Pick a few recipes from this list, mix and match your favorites, and create a relaxed, joyful morning celebrating Mom.
Because at the end of the day, it’s really about the time spent together.