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Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 4 And 5 By Ange Fonce





Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 4 And 5


By Ange Fonce


In the previous two articles about super charging you personal development I share with you Keys 1 to 3...



And in this final article of this series I will cover the basics of Key 4 and Key 5 with you so read on...





KEY 4... HOW are you doing things to acquire your goals? 


Most people also have some idea of HOW they do what they do or how they intend to do it technically speaking and for many people the HOW question can be the BIG BLOCK where they get stuck and their belief system can completely fail them.

Let us use an example here...

Imagine now the fuse has blown in a an electrical plug. 

How would you go about changing the fuse in the plug? 

Do you know HOW to change a fuse in a plug?

A lot of you will answer...

"Yes I believe I know HOW to change a fuse in a plug."

Then the next question could be...

"HOW did you learn to do this?"

Some will answer... 

"I learnt by trail and error... blew up a few fuses until I learnt HOW to do it."

Some will answer... 

"I learnt HOW by getting the information I needed to KNOW and changed the fuse."

Others will answer..."

“I learnt HOW to change the fuse by getting someone else who knew HOW to do it and by them showing me HOW to do it."

Each of these 3 learning methods of HOW to change a fuse in a electrical plug can all end up with a positive result... it is just that each method works within a different time frame

1... The trail and error method. 

This takes the longest time and is the most wasteful... unless you are pioneering something completely new... the trail and error method will be the way you go and you acquire your goal by a process of elimination and adjustment. 

Thomas Alva Edison comes to mind at this point... he was not the inventor of the light bulb... yet it was he that took the idea and perfected a long lasting practical electric light bulb... it took him 9,999 attempts of HOW not to make a light bulb work until he got to the place of HOW to make a light bulb work in ONE attempt... the 10,000th. 

So you can learn HOW to change a electric fuse by a process of elimination which would be time and resource consuming.

2... You can obtain knowledge by researching and learning. 

You can learn how to change a fuse by reading the instructions from someone else who has learnt themselves how to do it... then apply that knowledge to do it yourself... it might take a few attempts before you get it right or you might do it first time... doing it this way you have cut down on the elimination process and saved your self time and resources by gaining knowledge which you apply to gain practical experience in a direct way.

3... Learning directly from someone who knows how to do it.

The most efficient option is learning from another person who has both the knowledge and experience of HOW to change a fuse in an electrical plug and educates you in HOW to change a fuse and shows you HOW to do it for yourself... it  is the FASTEST way of learning so you are able yourself to change a fuse in an electrical plug.

And what about those who answer...

"I do not know HOW to change a fuse in an electrical plug... I do not "know" HOW to do it?"

Then ask yourself this simple questions...

"HOW come and what BLOCKS you from learning/"

"Is there something in your belief system that stops you from LEARNING and knowing HOW to change a fuse in a plug?"

Is most often the lack of knowledge of HOW to do things that stops many people from going forward acquiring their goals and fulfilling their purpose... this simple little exercise demonstrates just how peoples beliefs and lack of KNOWLEDGE stops then from doing the most simple things in their lives that would benefit them greatly WHEN they make EFFECTIVE CHANGE to their beliefs and lack of knowledge that blocks them.




Key 5... WHEN are you going to do things that matter to you?


This is the call to ACTION question.

When are you going going to fulfil your PURPOSE?

When are you going to acquire your GOALS?

When are you going to take ACTION?

Now there is nothing wrong with planning to take action... yet when planning becomes the pursuit of everything has to be perfect... that is no longer planning it is called procrastination an excuse to AVOID taking ACTION!

There are many people in this world who are fulfilling their PURPOSE... working to acquire their GOALS where everything is not perfect... everything is not right... everything is not going smoothly... they face many challenges and obstacles and they experience the grip of fear deep in the pit of their stomach and they go ahead because they are motivated by their purpose to fulfil their mission to acquire their goals and know enough of HOW to do it.

And more importantly they are FOCUSED... PASSIONATE about their PURPOSE and are willing to learn and undertake what is needed to be done to fulfil their MISSION.

When I set up my business... I personally have now over 30 years experience and knowledge of Coaching... Mentoring... Counselling... Sexology and Fitness and I wanted to be my own Boss and in control of my own independence.

However when it come to marketing and selling and the Internet going beyond Facebook and the such like... I was a complete novice in many ways and I went through these questions with myself...

WHY? 

There are many reasons and the primary one for me is I wanted to be MASTER of my own life and build an International Coaching business... I really enjoy working with and helping other people build great lives for themselves.

HOW?

I sat down and thought deeply on this question and looked at myself and my own skills set and what I needed to learn and where will I get the best information from and who to get the best information from and I could learn from that will help teach me? 

WHEN? 

The planning and where I wanted to be in 5 years time and HOW I am going to make all this happen... targets... dates... goals and a lot more...  then I set the date I will go totally into business for myself and yes that was a scary moment and also totally exciting... the day I actually started working for myself... I felt I had taken full RESPONSIBILITY for my own life!

Yet even here people can get stuck even after doing the... 

WHY?

HOW?

WHEN?

They get stuck in the loop of ifs... buts and maybes and planning becomes procrastination and the excuse is... 

“Every thing has to be perfect?”

This is the time to be really HONEST with yourself and take a look at that old chestnut... your beliefs because somewhere in your belief system there is negative feedback loops running that are not congruent with your why... what and how  because these beliefs are blocking your WHEN?

And stopping you from taking the most crucial step of all... when everything comes together you take the ACTION to make it all happen... because without ACTION the actually DOING to make your goals will not HAPPEN... is just a mental excise and your goals will be nothing... nothing more than broken promises to yourself because you lacked the MOTIVATION to make it happen and GET IT DONE... are you going to that to yourself?

Because no one else is going to make your life happen for you... your relationships... your health... your fitness... your goals... plus all the rest... only you can do that... you see it is bigger than more money or having more in your life and have you heard the saying...

"Less is more?"

It is really about WHAT motivates you and the reason WHY... that gives you a purpose in life or if you like gives you life meaning?

What are you intended to do that makes a difference in the world? 

What are you intended to do that makes a difference in the lives of people around you? 

What are you intended to do that makes a difference in the lives of people you do not even know? 

What you intend to do that makes a DIFFERENCE in YOUR Life?

What is your PURPOSE in life?

Your motivation comes from within you and your reasons WHY inspire you from the inside... too many people wait to work on their Big Reasons Why because many people have no idea of what they truly desire for themselves? 

I suggest that you decide what your Big Reasons Why is and begin working on them right now by being involved and being committed to something other than just yourself.

What you will find is that bringing your Big Reasons Why into your actions now... all of your other goals will come about more easily for you and to experience this and prove it to yourself you must first do it.

And here is a big hint for you... your right now and the actions you take right now... creates your future... creates your tomorrow... so be involved... be committed... be motivated... be your Big Reasons Why... NOW!

If you are feeling stuck... frustrated and unhappy with the way things are in your life... you are struggling to move forward... remember the fuse in the plug... you can struggle on finding out as you go along blowing up many fuses or you can search and find the correct information you need... which is helpful as we all need information on how to do things... it is just finding and knowing which is the best information to help us do things in a simple and effective way. 

Or the very best way is for you to get expert help from a professional who will show you how to change the fuse and provide you with ALL the information and support you need you need for now and in the future... so you will always be able to change the fuse when it blows and get the power back on or you could sit there frustrated with a busted fuse and no power!

The CHOICE is yours to make.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




Dynamic Lifer... The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and glamorously Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author... Speaker and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist... Sexologist and Multipreneur... who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life... relationships and wealth! 

4... If you are Happy and you Know it... you are becoming a Dynamic Lifer!

To Speak to Ange and arrange a consultation for what you would like help with CLICK HERE




"Transformation happens when people fall in love with a different version of themselves and their future!"


Join us today and become one of The Tribe... a DYNAMIC Lifer and if you want to share with a friend a writing... please go ahead and let them know they can receive their own writings via e mail by directly joining The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers... I am sure they will appreciate your consideration of them.






        
 
 
 

Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 2 And 3 By Ange Fonce





Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 2 And 3


By Ange Fonce


Following on from last weeks article Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 1.

In this article I will cover the basics of Key 2 and Key 3 with you to help you develop your own personal development.

So let us get started and read on...






KEY 2... Know your BIG reason WHY?


Just because you believe in something it does not mean it is going to serve you in acquiring your goals like losing weight... creating wealth and developing great relationships... in fact your beliefs could actually be sabotaging you. 

Instead ask your self...

What is the purpose of the goal you want to acquire? 

WHY are you working on what you desire to acquire for yourself?

Because when you ask yourself WHY... you get to the root cause of what your motivation is as in...

WHY are you desiring to do this? 

In the previous article I went into the reason WHY knowing and understanding your WHY  is so important to you... because it is an opportunity to expose the things you believe in and are those beliefs that can block and sabotage you and those beliefs that can serve you and benefit in acquiring your goals.

When your purpose and you what you desire to acquire in life are not aligned with your beliefs... you will suffer the constant frustration of not succeeding as your very own belief system is constantly working against you... when you look at those people who are successful at what they do in life... their career... business... health... life style and relationships... you will find their values... beliefs and purpose are all working together and congruent with each other and they are totally focused on acquiring the goals they set themselves and their MISSION is to FULFILL them as best they can!

So do you know your WHY?





KEY 3... WHAT are you doing things for?


When you ask yourself the question....

"What am I ACTUALLY doing this for?"

You open up another line of thinking about your beliefs and what is driving you... working from the inside out... most people do not even consider let alone know WHAT they do in life... business...  health... relationships or other ventures and even fewer people actually ask themselves these questions?

"What am I doing this for?"

"What are my values...  do I even KNOW my values?"

"Is what I am actually doing serving and benefiting me and helping me to grow as a person and acquire my goals in life?" 

"Do I in fulfilling my purpose serve others and the greater good?”

When you ask the WHAT question... you are again exposing your beliefs and in what way your beliefs are affecting your behaviours to scrutiny... through your belief system you have developed behaviours and ways of thinking that can be self sabotaging and incongruent with your values and this even extends to personal relationships with other people.

When you ask the WHAT question... ask yourself...

"Is what I am doing... my VALUES... BELIEFS...  BEHAVIOURS actually serving me in my purpose to acquire my goals... if not HOW can I effect changes?"

And in the next article I will be sharing with you about Key 4 and 5.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




Dynamic Lifer... The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and glamorously Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author... Speaker and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist... Sexologist and Multipreneur... who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life... relationships and wealth! 

4... If you are Happy and you Know it... you are becoming a Dynamic Lifer!

To Speak to Ange and arrange a consultation for what you would like help with CLICK HERE





"Transformation happens when people fall in love with a different version of themselves and their future!"


Join us today and become one of The Tribe... a DYNAMIC Lifer and if you want to share with a friend a writing... please go ahead and let them know they can receive their own writings via e mail by directly joining The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers...I am sure they will appreciate your consideration of them.






        
 
 
 

Super Charge Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce





Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 1

By Ange Fonce


This is the first article is a series of 5 articles about 5 Keys to super charging your personal development.

So let us start by asking you one simple question?

Are you living your life the way you truly desire too?

Now if you are one of those fortunate men and women who are... then you may find some of the tips I talk about in this first of a 5 part series of articles useful to you.

Now what if your the man or woman who is not living their life the way they desire too?

What you are about to read will be a BIG help to you... so read on...

The self improvement industry is full of books... CDs... videos... training workshops on just about everything... yet why are most people not motivated to take action toward their goals and make them happen?

Let us start with a quick test for you... 

Get a pen and paper and answer the following questions in as much detail as you can...

Question 1... Where do you get your motivation?

Question 2... What motivates you?

Question 3... Do you know WHY you do the things you do?

First I want to share with you WHY knowing your WHY is so important to you.
 
Do you truly KNOW why you do the things you do?
 
Are you in control of your actions and beliefs or are they in control of you?
 
Maybe this story will help you understand what I am asking...
 
A little girl was watching her mother prepare a fish for dinner... her mother cut the head and tail off the fish and then placed it into a baking pan... the little girl asked her mother why she cut the head and tail off the fish... her mother thought for a while and then said... 

"I have always done it that way that is how Grandma did it."
 
The girl was not satisfied with the answer and went to visit her grandma to find out why she cut the head and tail off of the fish before baking it. 

Grandma thought for a while and replied... 

"I do not know my mother always did it that way."
 
So the little girl and the grandma went to visit great grandma to find ask if she knew the answer.
 
Great grandma thought for a while and said... 

“Because the baking pan in my old oven was too small to fit in the whole fish... I would cut its head and tail off so I could fit it in my oven.”
 
We often find that the ways people do things are more influenced by tradition than by logic. 
 
For our own personal behaviors it can be difficult to admit and a lot of what we do and assume about ourselves comes from our parents or relatives. 
 
These beliefs and assumptions are handed down to us often for generations... such as beliefs about money... about relationships and about our place in the world.
 
And many of these beliefs are limiting beliefs.
 
At some point in the past someone taught you these beliefs without you even realizing it and these beliefs were created when you were younger and circumstances were different than they are now and many of those beliefs limit you from reaching your full potential.
 
And here is the good news... you do not need them any more.
 
You can have that aha moment that lets you see what beliefs are pulling your strings and you can cut them.
 
Once they are gone your ability to acquire your goals and create new relationships and navigate the social matrix will grow incredibly and you can feel like a new person.
 
You will be much more effective in acquiring your goals.
 
You will be more effective in all social interactions. 
 
You will be able to implement the things that you learn without excuses.
 
It is the process of reshaping your own limiting beliefs and becoming the kind of person that you desire to be and others would like to know.

What most of these programs never reveal... is that your motivation comes from within yourself... you create your motivation... you become motivated... you are motivated and there are 5 KEY ingredients in developing your own personal motivation.

In this the first article I will be focusing on the first one.

KEY 1... Be involved 100% in what you do.


First... take action and be involved in those activities that bring you closer to acquiring your goals... do not sit on the sidelines and watch others. 

Get in the game and participate... experience the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat and know that you will get up and get going after these happen and move on to the next challenge or learn from your failure to come back and succeed the next time so you can move forward.

Second... be totally COMMITTED to the goals you want to acquire because committed persistence is critical to your success and do not ever give up. 

Decide those things which you desire to be involved in and then commit to them with your full awareness and attention and focus to accomplish what you have set your mind to do and follow through with action making adjustments along the way if necessary and always being mindful of your ultimate goal.

Being involved plus commitment equals being motivated and all three of these are an inside job... they happen in your own head because the key to raising your level of involvement... commitment and motivation is you have to KNOW and UNDERSTAND your BIG reason... WHY?

And in the next article we will be going deeper into WHY knowing your BIG reason WHY is critical for acquiring your success in what you desire to do.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




Dynamic Lifer... The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and glamorously Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author... Speaker and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist... Sexologist and Multipreneur... who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life... relationships and wealth! 

4... If you are Happy and you Know it... you are becoming a Dynamic Lifer!

To Speak to Ange and arrange a consultation for what you would like help with CLICK HERE





"Transformation happens when people fall in love with a different version of themselves and their future!"


Join us today and become one of The Tribe... a DYNAMIC Lifer and if you want to share with a friend a writing... please go ahead and let them know they can receive their own writings via e mail by directly joining The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers...I am sure they will appreciate your consideration of them.






        
 
 
 

LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire By Ange Fonce





LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire


By Ange Fonce


"The people that people admire most extravagantly are the most daring liars; the people they detest the most violently are those who try to tell them the truth." ~ H L Mencken

We all know liars. 

And the truth is the vast majority of us become liars from time to time. 

Sometimes the lying seems very necessary and we lie to spare someone else hurt feelings or we lie to help someone else out of a jam or we lie because the lie is so minor that it is not going to affect anyone negatively and will affect us positively so it seems to be quite justified. 

And who is to say it is not justified? 

Sometimes we even lie because someone else is demanding information from us and we know that that person does not deserve to know the information or will use it in harmful ways once he or she gets it... so we tell that person something other than the truth




What Is Truth? 


Pilate asks Jesus and in the rock opera Jesus Christ Superstar the question is taken even further...

And what is truth... is truth unchanging law... we both have truths are mine the same as yours?"

Truth is both objective and subjective... truth can be deeply personal or something that many agree apon.

Yet there are people in this world who lie to harm... there are others who lie habitually seemingly unable or unwilling to tell the truth

Most people do their best to tell the truth as they know it and find it difficult to lie yet end up doing so when circumstances seem to demand it like when they need to save face or protect themselves from punishment. 

The first type of person is best dealt with under the topic of meanness while the second type is best left to the psychologist. 

It is the third type of lying that belongs here for that is the type that keeps you from enjoying your days for all that they are worth... an aberration in your behaviour that pulls you down and makes you feel horrible and that causes fear that was not there before and has the potential to harm relationships that mean a great deal to you.

Lying pulls us down for when we do not tell the truth we are bowing to pressure of some sort and we are no longer acting in a way that is natural to us... we are being forced by circumstance to do something that we would not consider doing. 

Worse that something is one of the things that we get upset at when people do it to us... so we start to see ourselves as hypocrites... we lose control of the situation and we are now reacting out of fear instead of responding with considered reason and we are deceiving others who probably do not deserve to be deceived. 

We are harder on ourselves than we are on others usually and when we lie we start to see ourselves in exaggerated terms and we start to see the lie as much bigger than it actually is. 

Worse still we start to focus on the lie and the action we took that was an aberration... instead of focusing on the more positive aspects of the world and people around us. 

Often we become obsessed until we come clean and admit the lie... apologize for it and start the process of putting it in our past.

Once we start fearing being found out... there is no way that we can get the most out of life as we spend and waste our time worrying about discovery and the inevitable confrontation that will expose us as people who are willing to lie and who cannot be trusted. 

Of course most people will not judge us so harshly that they will never trust us again... yet when fear enters our minds all things grow out of their realistic proportions. 

I just read an essay by a man who was remembering the time when he stole a pie as a child and then covered his tracks by lying. 

The effect on him was drastic as he had not only the theft to deal with emotionally and also the lying afterwards plus the fear of being discovered as the thief and the ensuing lies being uncovered.

I often hear people say and I say it myself that I would much rather have someone tell me a painful truth than have someone lie to me and to have me find out about the lie later. 

When we deal with children we prefer to have them tell the truth and get in a bit of trouble than to lie and get in a lot of trouble now for the original act and for the lie. 

This is because something happens in a relationship once someone lies to the other person... one person is now hiding something and the other loses trust and trust is the foundation and one of the most important aspects of any relationship... the person who is lying is bringing dishonesty and suspicion and fear into the relationship and these are all extremely damaging elements that will destroy any relationship and interestingly enough one lie leads to another as the liar tries to cover his or her lie with more lies and once the other person starts to feel the suspicion... what happens to trust? 

The person being lied to usually wants to trust the other and the liar wants to be trusted yet knows that he or she does not deserve the trust and it is a vicious circle from which there is no escape except telling the truth... a painful remedy that many people are not willing to face and they would rather have the relationship end than tell a truth that may harm them by exposing their actions and their dishonesty.

For my part I learned long ago the hard way that it is much better to be truthful from the very beginning even if the results for me are not all that positive and I also decide on actions that will not put me in a position in which I will have to lie to someone in the future. 

I know that telling the truth is widely regarded as honourable and just and I have no fear of taking responsibility for my actions and I would rather be slammed for being honest than be promoted as a result of dishonesty for though in the latter case others may feel good about me... I will feel horrible about myself. 

And how can I live life fully if I do not feel authentic about myself and conduct myself with integrity?

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




Dynamic Lifer... The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and glamorously Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author... Speaker and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist... Sexologist and Multipreneur... who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life... relationships and wealth! 

4... If you are Happy and you Know it... you are becoming a Dynamic Lifer!

To Speak to Ange and arrange a consultation for what you would like help with CLICK HERE





"Transformation happens when people fall in love with a different version of themselves and their future!"


Join us today and become one of The Tribe... a DYNAMIC Lifer and if you want to share with a friend a writing... please go ahead and let them know they can receive their own writings via e mail by directly joining The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers...I am sure they will appreciate your consideration of them.





        
 
 
 

Are You Investing Your Time Wisely? By Ange Fonce





Are You Investing Your Time Wisely?  


By Ange Fonce


If you want to become wealthy and successful in anything you are gong to need two things and neither of them are money.

One is ambition.

The other is time.

If you have got both of those you have an opportunity to create the life you want to live.

And in this article I want to focus on your most precious asset... TIME!

As I am writing this article I am in Sofia Bulgaria taking a break and it is early Monday morning and I have had to change how I invest my time.

You would think such a distance would make time investment harder yet it is actually proving far more effective.

There are a couple of reasons for that I think.

First why am I in Sofia?

Simply I am taking a break and I am researching and investigating a very interesting story to do with an individual which has me away from the UK and while I am here it is giving me time to think which is as important as anything else when it comes to working effectively... if you do not give yourself time to think you will always be acting from the point of reacting instead of responding... you will not be able to form a strategy or imagine all possible outcomes of a decision you might need to make... so give yourself time to think.

The second reason I seem to have more time at the moment is the fact that I am forced to better organise my efforts.

One of the biggest problems I see people having with the investment of their time is that they flit between things and often do tasks in the wrong order... trying to get little jobs out of the way before concentrating on big jobs or wasting time on a job they cannot progress on at that point and would be better left for another time or just plain old procrastination on social media and other crap like that.

Seeing as I am out of the UK for some days I cannot afford to waste the time I am here... so it is important that I have a schedule that I stick to and so far this has been much more effective... there is less tolerance for waffle when you know you are limited on time.

And going back to that priority point I mentioned before...

If you are able to take on board this advice I am confident you will find that you get more done in less time and leaving you with more time to focus on your ambitions and what is important!

So how do you best organise your time if you wish to pursue a goal of becoming wealthy?

As I have mentioned time being a very important factor there and from my communication with readers and clients one of the biggest obstacles people blame for not being able to become wealthy is the lack of time they have.

I imagine I can guess your thoughts on this... that people have to make time and it is not good enough to blame a lack of it and you could perhaps share some thoughts on how people best organize their time.

When you were still in the early days of pursuing your goals how was your typical day structured?





Time

The most important factor in making time work for you is to employ two rules of productivity... the priority system popularized by Steven Covey and Paretos Principle...

You should invest 80% of your work time focusing on important yet not urgent goals and you make sure that one hour of that time is first thing in the morning after you have had that cup of coffee or tea for you and before you have had a full breakfast. 

The problem with time is not that we have only 24 hours a day and consider this that the most successful people in the world have no more and that we ordinary people tend to use those hours less efficiently than the great wealth builders.

To make time work for you... you must invest the time you have on the objectives that are most likely to give you the results you most desire.

And the thing is the human impulse is to do the opposite.

We are all inclined to spend our best hours taking care of urgent tasks that have little long term importance as we deal with things that are urgent and not IMPORTANT and answer emails and that eats up hours and hours of time each day while we keep telling ourselves that we will get to the important and not urgent objectives later on and that later on never comes.

And Seth Godin summed this up nicely in one of his blog posts...





The Why Of Urgent vs Important


You know you should be focusing on the long term journey... on building out the facility... signing up new customers or finishing your dissertation.

And instead there is a queue of urgent things... all justifiable... all requiring you and you alone to handle them and so you do... pushing off the important in favor of the urgent.

Of course everyone has this challenge and some people manage to get past it... even you the last time you made a major move forward. 

Think about it... those urgencies from a few years ago... who is handling them now?

The reason we go for urgent is that it makes us feel competent... We are good at it... we did not used to be and we are now.

Important on the other hand, is fraught with fear with uncertainty and with the risk of failure.

Now that you know why you can dance with it.


We find that those big life changing goals that we set years ago continue to be on our to do lists with each passing year.

You can change all that and quickly if you follow this simple rule... 

Invest 80% of your work time and always the first and best hour of each day working on the wealth building projects that are likely to bring you the greatest returns in the long run.

Those who live in the moment dealing with the urgent never have time to invest in the important that actual builds your life wealth.

It is such a simple idea and so easily overlooked... I think we are all guilty of letting those little jobs take over and putting off the serious work for later. 

It is interesting because I think your way of thinking makes you truly consider what your most important objectives are and I think that sometimes scares people... you realise that having enough time is not the obstacle it is and that it is you do not truly understand what your objective are or at least which ones take priority.

There you go.

Your first hour of every day is best invested doing the most important thing you have on your to do list and I bet you do not do that currently... I bet you spend the first hour catching up on emails... checking your favourite websites or making breakfast.

Simple answer... do not do it because by doing so you are wasting your freshest most conscious hour on things that are totally irrelevant and you will not succeed.

Instead focus that first hour on doing something important... you might not finish the thing you invest an hour on especially if it is a major project yet you will do good work on it.

Once you have done that first then you can reward yourself with some time doing those other less brain demanding things... like having breakfast which I am going to go and do now.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




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